Pregnant?
Congratulations! Welcome to
the amazing, sometimes difficult and often confusing journey to
motherhood. As you get closer to meeting your precious bundle, you
may have some questions about the big day... how long will I be in
labour for? How will I cope? Will my partner be able to help? What if
I don't have a partner? What are my pain relief options and Why on
earth do some people choose to have their baby at home?
At Milky-bar you can meet with other
mothers, some who are at the same stage as you, and some who have
just been through the birth! Its great to be able to share and
explore your fears and excitement with local mums and doulas.
New baby?
Trying to make your way
through mountains of cards, washing, and advice whilst feeding round
the clock and haven't slept since you were 6 months pregnant? You're
not alone! Milky- bar is a “drop in” based at a local craft centre so you don't have to worry about getting out for a certain
time, or staying out for long. If you feel like you are snowed under
with baby stuff, and would love to drink a cup of tea (whilst its
still vaguely warm) then we're here for you! Come along and chat to
doulas and other mothers, we can point you in the direction of lots
of helpful info and resources, as well as provide a listening ear as
you discover the fabulous mother that you are becoming! We
understand that this is an emotional time so we make sure there are
plenty of tissues available, and there's always cake!
FAQ's
Q: "I've just found out I'm pregnant, when
can I join in?"
A: You can come along at any stage in
pregnancy, in fact being around other mothers and babies can really
help you to prepare for your new role as a mum, and help you to get
informed and learn what to expect at all different stages.
Q: "My baby is 3 weeks old, I want to come
along but I dont feel ready to join a baby group just yet"
A: Milky Bar is a drop in so there's no
obligation to stay, and cups of tea are available at
any point! Stay 5 minutes or 2 hours, we don't mind and you don't have
to come every week if it doesn't suit you. There are lots of local
mother and baby/toddler groups out there, and we can give you a list
if you are looking for something more regular when your baby is
older. (Of course you are welcome to join us every week if you would
like to!)
Q: "Can I bring my toddler(s) too?"
A: Pre school aged siblings are welcome to
all milky-bar sessions.We have plenty of
age appropriate toys and biscuits provided.
Q: "Doula- run? Whats a doula?"
A: Doulas are peers, we are other mothers
who have a special interest in mothers, birth and the post natal
period. We are trained and have experience working with, listening
to and supporting mothers without judging or agendas. We do not
advise, but we do have lots of good ideas and can point you in the
direction of help whether its at your home, a local clinic, or local
groups specific to your needs. We can not give medical advice.
Q: "I like the sound of that, where can I find more information about doulas?"
A: At Milky-Bar we have a list of local doulas including those who work within doula UK and those who work independently. You can search doula.org.uk for doulas all around the country. When searching for a doula its a good idea to interview 2 or 3 to make sure you are getting the right support for you. More info in my "What's a Doula?" post.
Q: "Can I get help with breast feeding at
the Milky Bar?"
A:Yes, Katie is our breast feeding
counsellor (association of breastfeeding mothers) and is with us most
weeks. Rachel is also trained in the basic techniques. You can
contact your local breast feeding counsellor at any time free of
charge.
Q: "Do I have to breastfeed to come to the
milky bar?"
No! Milky bar is for babies who drink
milk... that would be all of them!
Q: "I'd like to come! So where is it and when?"
A: Milky Bar is run on thursdays from
10-12 at Make, Do & Mend, http://www.makedomend.com ( for maps and details search)
Q: "Is there a cost?"
A: As with all sessions run at Make, Do & Mend, there is a charge of £3 per adult per session. This also covers teas/ coffees or squash, biscuits and cake :D.
Q:"What else can I do at Milky bar?"
A: As well as meeting mums, and chatting
with doulas you can:
bring and swap maternity wear,
bring and swap new born clothes,
borrow pregnancy and parenting books from a small library,
and take part in demos from local activities such as Baby Sensory, Baby Massage, Sling Meet, hand and foot print pottery art, and Hypnobirthing chats as well as many more!
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